10 Questions to Ask a Divorce Lawyer

by Susan Evans

If you’re preparing for a divorce, finding an attorney may be important to you.

Minnesota attorney Jonathan Fogel of Fogel Law Offices and author of Preparing for Divorce While Happily Married; Tips from a Divorce Lawyer recommended asking these 10 questions when interviewing attorneys.

10 Questions to Ask a Divorce Lawyer

By Jonathan Fogel

It is extremely important to hire a good lawyer early in your divorce process, but how do you determine who is a “good” lawyer. What questions should you ask?

We all consult experts about almost every aspect of our lives. We visit a doctor to get an idea of whether we’re healthy or not. We go to an accountant at the beginning of the year to discuss what we might do to reduce our tax liability for the next twelve months. We even sit down with an estate planning attorney to make plans for our assets after we eventually pass away. A divorce lawyer is no different.

There are many lawyers to choose from, so it’s important you ask pertinent and important questions in order to pick the lawyer that is knowledgeable and right for you. Remember your lawyer is going to be the link between you and your future relationship with your children, as well as your assets, so spend some time selecting the attorney that is right for you.

  1. Ask the attorney how much of his/her practice is devoted to family law. You don’t want to hire someone who is just starting out in the practice of family law. There are many intricacies, “tricks” and nuances that can only be learned with experience. Now is not the time to give the “rookie” a chance to get into the game.
  2. Ask the attorney to explain the legal issues as well as the legal process. A good attorney should be able to very easily identify and explain the legal issues and general concepts of your case. You are not going to want to hire an attorney who needs to refer back to the statute book every time you – or the judge – have a question.
  3. Ask how the attorney charges for his/her time. Some attorneys have different rates for in-court time versus out-of-court time. You will want to know this up front. In addition, you will want to know if the attorney is billing per hour, in what increments of time will you be billed. Some attorneys break down their time into tenths of an hour, while other attorneys will charge a minimum for drafting letters or appearing in court.
  4. Ask the attorney how much they expect it will cost. Do not, however, expect the attorney to give you a specific quote on fees. Generally, the attorney should be able to give you a rough estimate and a list of services covered by that estimate. The more experienced lawyers should be able to provide you with a roadmap of the process and how much each step will cost. You should be very skeptical about an attorney who quotes you a fixed rate or guarantees that your entire divorce will only cost a specific amount. Remember, you get what you pay for.
  5. Ask about the attorney’s experience working against the opposing attorney, if there is one already involved. It is very helpful to know that your attorney has dealt with opposing counsel in the past. You will want your attorney to know the opposing counsel’s weaknesses, preferences and tendencies. A lot of times, your attorney can tell you how the case might proceed, depending on who is representing your soon-to-be ex-spouse. If your attorney does not know the opposing attorney, you should ask them to do some research.
  6. Ask how much work will be done by paralegals and/or younger associates. Generally speaking, most attorneys will work with a paralegal that is responsible for a lot of the day-to-day workings on the file. The nice thing about having a paralegal work on your case is that they typically charge significantly less per hour than an attorney.
  7. Ask the attorney to give you a game plan or strategy for handling your case. Your attorney should be prepared to provide you with an overall strategy. This will assure that your attorney will be proactive and not just reactive, which will save you time and money in the long run. Remember, the strategy may change during the course of the proceeding, but the overall goals should remain the same.
  8. Ask the attorney if he has ever been subject to discipline by the Board of Professional Responsibility. Do not be afraid to ask your potential attorney this question. If the answer is “yes,” you are going to want to learn all of the details before hiring this individual. You might not want to rule out an attorney just because he or she has been disciplined, but it’s a red flag that needs to be scrutinized.
  9. Ask how the attorney communicates information to the clients. The rules of most state bar associations require regular communications with the client, which includes, but is not limited to, receiving copies of all correspondence. Your attorney should send you copies of all paperwork and correspondence that comes in and out of their office regarding your case. Be sure that your attorney keeps you informed of all goings-on in your case.
  10. Trust your gut! In the end, it will probably boil down to your own gut feeling about the attorney. Trust that feeling. If you spend the entire consultation with the attorney wondering why your stomach is churning and you can’t get that bad taste out of your mouth, you should probably look elsewhere. On the other hand, if you leave the meeting with a sense of trust and the feeling that your questions have been answered, I suggest you stick with that attorney. You are going to be paying that attorney a lot of money and working very closely with him/her going forward, you want to make sure you can trust them.

Read Jonathan’s article on 5 Steps to Prepare for a Divorce.

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The information here is not meant to be a substitute for legal advice, please consult with trusted legal counsel.

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